Sexual issues: How to manage
Tools to have a satisfying sex life Typical reaction to sexual problems Most couple therapies will focus to a certain degree on giving the tools to react productively to a sexual difficulty. A lot of the times, the couple comes in with one of them being the “patient” and the other will be tagging along. Sometimes, the partners agree on those
Increase sexual satisfaction
Sexual presence anxiety Getting out of a sexual routine We often talk about sexual performance when it comes to having good or bad sex. Many people desperately search to be sexually performing in bed so that they can get their ego’s rubbed the right way. They want their partner’s to notice how good they are and leave their mark. Others
Sexual performance and decreased satisfaction
Breaking the Barriers That Stand in the Way of Your Pleasure: The Quest for Sexual Performance Technically Flat: The Pressure of Sexual Performance We all want to be successful in sexuality. We want to be good to prove and reassure ourselves that our partners will enjoy their sexual experiences with us. We also inculcate in the media, with our friends
Getting Beyond Communication Issues
How Mind-Mapping Makes Your Relationship and Sex Better False communication issues In another article, we discussed how couples create false communication issues so they could fight about that rather than the real issues in their relationship. We also discussed how we are able to do that with the different types of mind-mapping abilities that we have. We are now going
Pretending to Have Communication Issues
Types of Mind-Mapping Lack of Communication: A Pretend Fairytale In another article, I described that there is no such thing as a lack of communication in a couple and that we have the ability to mind-map each other. This segment will go deeper into the different types of mind-mapping abilities we are capable of. Quick Recap: What is
Lack of communication in a couple
Couple communication; “Honey… I don’t understand what you mean” Everyone says it and no one understands it The lack of communication in a couple is often the subject of couples therapy sessions. How many times have you heard that communication is the key to success in a relationship? Multiple times, I guess. If I told you that there are no
Falling into the sexual routine
Where has my libido gone? The killer routine! We all know that routine kills sexual desire in a couple. After a few years, we get tired of making love with the same person, doing it in the same way and being able to predict the next “moves” of the other. We all know the mantra: “You have to vary your
Revenge: The Ugly Side of Infidelity
What brings out the worst in people What can having an affair mean about a relationship In my last article, we talked about learning from an infidelity, which looked at understanding what had brought on the affair in the first place and how it was related to the relationship. When you take the time to question yourself
