How the Way You Were Loved Defines How You Make Love (With a Dash of Humor!) Let’s talk about love. Not the sweet, Hollywood rom-com kind where the two main characters meet in a coffee shop and walk off into the sunset together. No, today we’re diving deep into the gritty, quirky, sometimes downright awkward way in which our past
Photo by whemak on Freeimages.com The Yo-Yo of Desire: When Couples Just Aren’t in Sync Ah, relationships! A delicate blend of compromise, patience, and, let’s be real, sometimes an exhausting tug-of-war. If you’re in a couple where sexual desire levels differ, then you’re surely familiar with the “yo-yo” dynamic: sometimes one person’s ready to go, while the other just wants
How You Were Loved Defines How You Make Love (With a Dash of Humor) Ah, love—this mysterious, exhilarating, and sometimes downright confusing force that we all chase like moths to a flame. We write songs about it, lose sleep over it, and endlessly swipe through dating apps in search of it. But have you ever stopped to think that the
When your sex life is manage by astral objects! Ah, gender stereotypes and sexual desire! As a sexologist, this is my daily bread. I spend my days navigating between “Men are from Mars” and “Women are from Venus.” And honestly, if Mars and Venus could talk, they would laugh at our earthly quarrels. Let’s start with the classic stereotype: “Men
Self-Validation and Validation by Others in Sexuality: Impacts on Sexual Satisfaction At the heart of this experience lies the quest for validation: self-validation and validation by others. These two forms of validation play a crucial role in the construction of our sexual identity and in the quality of our sexual experiences. How do self-validation and validation by others impact
Infidelity and Personal Development Infidelity can be explored through the lens of personal development and individuality within a couple. It allows us to emphasize the importance of personal growth in intimate relationships following infidelity. Differentiation of Self Differentiation of self refers to a person’s ability to maintain their own viewpoint and needs while remaining emotionally connected with their partner. It
How your in-laws impact your sex-life? The relationship with your in-laws can potentially have an impact on your overall relationship, including your sexuality, but the extent of this impact varies widely among individuals and families. Here are some ways in which the relationship with in-laws might influence the sexual aspect of a relationship: Stress and Tension: If there is tension
Photo by Michael Prewett on Unsplash Finding Balance in Intimate Relationships: Exploring the Four Points of Equilibrium In the journey of building and maintaining a strong, fulfilling relationship, finding a delicate balance is key. There are ways to offer yourself valuable insights into achieving equilibrium within the intricate dynamics of an intimate partnership. These four points encompass various aspects
Photo by charlesdeluvio on Unsplash Is pornography really the cause of sexual difficulties in your relationship? Based on general research in the field of sexology and couple relationships, there are different perspectives on the impact of pornography on sexual desire. Some studies suggest that excessive or inappropriate use of pornography can lead to relationship problems and affect sexual desire in
Photo par Tyler Nix sur Unsplash The Benefits of Monogamy and the Challenges of Maintaining Sexual Desire Monogamy is a form of relationship that involves exclusive commitment between two partners, which can vary for each couple. While there are different approaches to relationships, monogamy offers distinct advantages. However, one of the most commonly cited challenges in monogamous relationships is the
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