The Relational « Ditch » I love him, I love him not … The relational “DITCH” is a term to define the moment when almost all couples reach the breaking point where sexual and/or marital difficulties take too much place and breakup becomes possible. This phase is normal and desirable, as it pushes individuals to become better people and above
How to Give Yourself Quick Moments as a Couple Do you take the time to nurture your everyday couple life? If balancing your social life, work, household obligations and love life is a headache, here are some tips that could help. An emotional or sexual approach? Signs of affection in a couple are of major importance for the well-being of
Being eaten out is harder for most than eating in…sexually I mean! You’ve probably received oral sex in your life and most likely have given it. You might be surprised that most prefer to give it than to receive it. Surprised? Let me explain! Roles when having sex We tend to give roles during sex to each partner such
Justice in polyamoury, but in what context? Society is becoming more open about the idea of polyamorous relationships, even though there is still quite a lot of polyamorophobia (a word I just invented). Therefore, I am getting more people in my office seeking help to negotiate their relationship contract. Every couple has some form of understanding about what they consider
The politics of sexual desire Everyone wants to be and feel desired by others, as well as loved. Specifically by their spouses, but sometimes other people. Most people don’t find themselves desirable unless someone or others agree with them about their level of desirability. It is even seen negatively to see oneself as desirable by our society. We perceive it as
What gets you turned on during sex? If you consult a sex therapist psychotherapist, chances are you are going to get that question asked. It might seem intrusive, intimidating, uncomfortable to answer this to someone you have barely known for a couple of hours. A lot of the times, we aren’t quite sure what to answer or know what is
Photo by arianneclement.com Great Sex Requires Effort Nothing in life that is worth it comes easily. Sex might be natural, but it is not innate to humans…well not good sex anyways. We have to learn how to have sex by exploring ourselves and our partner to eventually become great lovers. When we have our first sexual encounters with a partner, it
I Feel More Emotionally Mature Than my Partner In many instances in a relationship, we can feel that one of us is more emotionally mature than the other person. In couple’s therapy, we actually get that a lot. One of the partners seems more stable and has his s**t together while the other seems distraught and dysfunctional. This can last for
Are you emotionally intelligent? Have you ever heard of emotional intelligence? You most likely are if you are capable of reading other people’s emotions. Some people are just way better at it than others. This capacity is required if you want to have any type of profound or intimate moment with another person. It is required if you want to
