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The stages of the couple

The Phases of a Relationship: Passion, Disillusionment and Resignation Romantic relationships are intense journeys, sometimes tumultuous, often beautiful, but rarely simple. offers a clear perspective on the phases that most couples go through: passion, disillusionment and resignation. These steps are not failures, but opportunities for partners to grow and evolve individually and together. Understanding these phases can turn a relationship

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What couple dynamics do you have?

A Collaborative Alliance:* Couple dynamics: your romantic relationship and sex life depend on it We would like to believe that a romantic relationship and sexuality are naturally easy for couples who are mature and healthy. Of course, there are some conflicts and clashes that are inevitable in any relationship. On the other hand, how do you get through a

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Unhealthy couple dynamics

Normal marital sadism* Learning to hate your romantic partner We don’t anticipate that one day we will take pleasure in hurting someone we love. We would still less like to admit it. For many people and couples, their first reflex is to immediately deny any form of dishonesty or malfeasance towards one or the other. What valid reasons

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Transforming the sexual routine

Sexual routine and sexual presence anxiety Performance and sexual presence We often talk about sexual performance , for good or for bad, with regard to sexuality. Sexual routine is often mentioned in this regard. Many people are desperate to perform sexually to flatter their ego and ensure that they are appreciated by their sexual partners. Others move away from this

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How Your love language was created

How the Way You Were Loved Defines How You Make Love (With a Dash of Humor!) Let’s talk about love. Not the sweet, Hollywood rom-com kind where the two main characters meet in a coffee shop and walk off into the sunset together. No, today we’re diving deep into the gritty, quirky, sometimes downright awkward way in which our past

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The yo-yo sexual dynamic that blows up relationships!

Photo by whemak on Freeimages.com The Yo-Yo of Desire: When Couples Just Aren’t in Sync Ah, relationships! A delicate blend of compromise, patience, and, let’s be real, sometimes an exhausting tug-of-war. If you’re in a couple where sexual desire levels differ, then you’re surely familiar with the “yo-yo” dynamic: sometimes one person’s ready to go, while the other just wants

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Gender Stereotypes and Sexual Desire: When Mars and Venus Meet Martians and Venusians

When your sex life is manage by astral objects! Ah, gender stereotypes and sexual desire! As a sexologist, this is my daily bread. I spend my days navigating between “Men are from Mars” and “Women are from Venus.” And honestly, if Mars and Venus could talk, they would laugh at our earthly quarrels. Let’s start with the classic stereotype: “Men

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Does your sexual satisfaction depend on your partner?

Self-Validation and Validation by Others in Sexuality: Impacts on Sexual Satisfaction   At the heart of this experience lies the quest for validation: self-validation and validation by others. These two forms of validation play a crucial role in the construction of our sexual identity and in the quality of our sexual experiences. How do self-validation and validation by others impact

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