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Listening vs considering: the key essential to resolving your couple’s issues

Listening or Considering in a Couple: Understanding the Difference to Better Understand Each Other In most couple conflicts, one sentence comes up again and again: “You’re not listening to me.” Often, the response is just as quick: “Yes I am, I’m listening.” This dialogue of the deaf illustrates a common confusion in intimate relationships: listening is not the same as

Francois Renaud M.A 9 February 2026

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Why Consult a Sexologist in Montreal: Reasons, Timing, and How It Works

Why Consult a Sexologist: Understanding Yourself to Live Better Sexuality is an essential part of personal and relational well-being. Yet, talking about it still feels uncomfortable for many people. When pleasure, desire, or intimacy start causing tension, pain, or confusion, meeting with a sexologist can be a real turning point. A sexologist in Montreal is a professional trained to explore

Francois Renaud M.A 11 November 2025

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The Difference Between a Good Sexologist and the Best Sexologists

Discover what separates a good sexologist from the best — empathy, presence, and life-changing transformation. Finding a good sexologist isn’t that hard.But finding the best sexologists — the ones who truly transform lives, rekindle intimacy, and help people reconnect to themselves — is something else entirely. Every sexologist has training, theory, and listening skills.Yet some create change that lasts —

Francois Renaud M.A 28 October 2025

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My Partner Wants an Open Relationship. HELP?!

Even if polyamorous/open relationships are now increasingly recognized and accepted, monogamy is mostly never questioned and generally always goes without saying, even in casual relationships. It is also very rare, even unthinkable, to hear discussions about monogamy between two people. But it’s still funny to imagine : “Honey, I have to tell you something… I am monogamous! Is it ok

Francois Renaud M.A 11 February 2022

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When I wanted to stop sex in the middle of it!

Yeah…not sure I want to do that! It sounds embarassing, uncomfortable, like something to never be talked about again. Why does it sound so hard to put sex on pause? It’s already so easy to do so with our movies, television series, and especially with way too intense true crime documentaries, right? Like in every situation, there is not only

Francois Renaud M.A 28 July 2021

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Different Types of Sexual Desire Part II

Complexity of Our Relationship and The Influence on Our Sexual Desire For a long time, humans have tried to understand the mysteries of sexuality and more specifically how to create sexual desire in men and in women. There have been many debates, experiences, research, theories and hypotheses that came forth from the subject. To this day, there is still no

Francois Renaud M.A 14 March 2015