{"id":34,"date":"2015-03-21T22:01:00","date_gmt":"2015-03-21T21:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lesexologue.ca\/blog\/2015\/03\/21\/different-types-of-sexual-desire-part-iii\/"},"modified":"2026-09-09T13:59:50","modified_gmt":"2026-09-09T17:59:50","slug":"different-types-of-sexual-desire-part-iii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lesexologue.ca\/en\/blog\/2015\/03\/21\/different-types-of-sexual-desire-part-iii\/","title":{"rendered":"Different Types of Sexual Desire Part III"},"content":{"rendered":"

How to move on to a self-validated sexual desire <\/b><\/h1>\n

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There is a fundamentally different element between self-validated sexual desire and all the other types of desire<\/a> mentioned in the previous texts. It is at the level of intimacy<\/a> that the difference occurs, more specifically our self-perception and authenticity. The feeling of desirability is based, for many people, on the perception that their partner has of them in this regard. This way of functioning inevitably kills sexual desire in a couple that is at the attachment stage. At the beginning of a romantic relationship, we seek to obtain and offer validation and approval, especially in sexuality. We want to be desirable in the eyes of the other, we try to find out if we are capable of pleasing sexually, of seducing, of being loved. All this is necessary and pleasant in a couple, however in the long term this dynamic begins to weigh heavily on sexual desire. <\/div>\n
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Self-validation<\/b><\/h3>\n
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There are four fundamental elements that play into sexual desire in long-term<\/div>\n
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