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Couples will always argue and this is inevitable. This is not the pleasant part of a couple, as we all wish to have a harmonious love life. Unfortunately, but fortunately also, this is not the case. People can’t agree on everything in their relationship, especially when the subject is important and touches on a person’s core values. Our self or more commonly called our identity plays an immense role in romantic relationships. It is also impossible to compromise in all situations, because it becomes necessary to choose. Some decisions simply don’t allow for the best of both worlds to make everyone happy. Some sacrifices must be made in a relationship and there are inevitable arguments surrounding these difficult choices.<\/p>\n
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Couples have regular conflicts and this is completely healthy. The important thing is to manage them well. It is not uncommon to find subjects in a couple, where neither of them is ready to deviate from their position. You don’t want to be wrong or don’t want to give up your point of view on a situation. Everyone is emotionally attached to their perception and each of these contradicts itself. This is called an emotional dead end! Signs of this are:<\/div>\n
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\n- Repetitive arguments<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
\n- Quick frustration with certain topics<\/li>\n
- Feeling misunderstood<\/li>\n
- Believing that we are entirely right and our partner is in the field<\/li>\n
- Not actually taking the time to think about what your partner is saying, but rather thinking about the next argument<\/li>\n
- Our goal is to prove our point to be right<\/li>\n
- Ignoring the other to hurt (normal marital sadism<\/a>)<\/li>\n
- and the list goes on<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n