{"id":25774,"date":"2026-07-27T13:14:32","date_gmt":"2026-07-27T17:14:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lesexologue.ca\/blog\/2026\/07\/27\/building-a-better-couple-dynamic\/"},"modified":"2026-09-14T07:41:18","modified_gmt":"2026-09-14T11:41:18","slug":"building-a-better-couple-dynamic","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lesexologue.ca\/en\/blog\/2026\/07\/27\/building-a-better-couple-dynamic\/","title":{"rendered":"Building a better couple dynamic"},"content":{"rendered":"

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A Collaborative Alliance:*<\/b><\/h1>\n

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Once your type of alliance<\/a> has been determined, it is important to understand that it only requires one of the two partners<\/b> to change it so that it becomes collaborative.<\/div>\n
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What is a collaborative alliance?<\/b><\/h3>\n
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A collaborative alliance works and strengthens our emotional balance<\/a>. An alliance of this type requires seeing your couple as a team ready to confront itself and, if necessary, confront its partner about the lack of collaborative alliance. It is the ability of each person to evaluate and self-criticize by taking responsibility and promoting honesty with oneself and one’s partner.<\/div>\n
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Ingredients of a good collaborative alliance<\/b><\/h3>\n
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  • Take the time to confront ourselves about our involvement in the dynamics of the couple and sexuality<\/li>\n
  • Do not distort the truth or remove information to manipulate your partner.<\/li>\n
  • Being completely honest with your partner, even when it puts you at a disadvantage or is difficult<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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    • Maintain the collaborative alliance, even if the partner has let it down<\/li>\n
    • Don’t let our feelings get the better of us and focus on what needs to be done.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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      • Rebuilding the alliance is more important than losing<\/li>\n

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      • Understand when and why you lost your collaborative<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n
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        • Confront your partner about the loss of the alliance by remaining open to their perception and our potential contribution to this loss<\/li>\n
        • A collaborative alliance tests your integrity<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n
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