We baked your sex pizza<\/a>, we binge watched your erotic show<\/a> and now we have your water park. Worthy of MarineLand or Grandby’s Amazoo? Take your tube, we’re going to slide!<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Now that you’re a Don Juan or a femme fatale of seduction. A great actor in a brand new series starting this summer, it’s time to look at the practice of your intimacy. Let’s compare your sexual practices to slides in a water park. There are some that are beige, others are in the dark, some with others, others of all kinds of colors. Again, there are those with strong or certain emotion who take it easy. You can be in the one for beginners or for the “junky adrenaline”. You, which of the slides do you take to slide? <\/strong><\/p>\n <\/p>\n Take some time to remember the very first time you started having sex with another person. You were probably “full”, uncomfortable and “awkward”. I’m willing to bet that you didn’t “blow up” your spectacular exploits, after this first experience. In short, you slipped for the first time in the beige slide for the youngest. As you got older, you may have decided to explore the park and start trying something more challenging. On the other hand, it is not uncommon for you not to get very far or you will experiment a lot at the beginning, but soon after.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n Do you remember that he had minimum sizes for certain slides? I hated it to die! I was shorter than my cousin and brother and had to wait for them downstairs while he slid in pleasure. I’m of course talking about real waterslides here!!! Your degree of comfort with intimacy and the variety of sexual practices in your repertoire is a bit similar. On the other hand, you are not limited by your size, but rather by your ability to tolerate the emotional charge that comes with novelty.<\/p>\n Every new experience comes with a learning curve, a feeling of incompetence and a greater or lesser emotional charge.<\/strong> As I explained above about your first sexual relationship, you weren’t very confident. Time and experiences progress and you are no longer as uncomfortable as you used to be and you have developed new skills. On the other hand, as an adult, we rarely want to find ourselves in the position of a young teenager who is uncomfortable with his sexuality. We play it safe.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n It is often said that you have to feel comfortable and safe in your sexuality to be able to fully enjoy it. It’s a half-truth in fact. You have to feel good about your sexuality, but not at the expense of your sexual evolution. Sexual stagnation often leads to the death of the victim, especially in a relationship. The “thrill” of a first time or the success of overcoming a challenge<\/a> creates a craze and an emotional charge that gives you a taste. If we never overcame our limitations and lived with DISCOMFORT, the human species would have been extinct long ago and we wouldn’t have all these beautiful and variant sexual practices that we have developed over the centuries.<\/p>\n <\/p>\nThe beginnings of your sex life<\/h2>\n
Welcome to the limit of your degree of comfort, of your sexual intimacy<\/h3>\n
\nOn the other hand, as an adult, we rarely want to find ourselves in the position of a young teenager\/adult who is uncomfortable with their sexuality. We play it safe. <\/strong><\/h4>\n
\nSafety leads to sexual platitude<\/h2>\n
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